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Cause if i can help someone atleast I won’t have died in vain
This is so important, you all don’t even understand.
If you are reading this and feel like no on is on your side, I am. I will always be on your side. I will not be against you. I will stand by you.
Because your life fucking matters. Don’t you dare think it doesn’t.
Just gonna repost it!
I agree, your life matters. I’ve struggled with that for a while.
reblogging this incase anyone needs it!
Extremely important
Yes, very
I used a crisis line tonight & I’m so thankful that these hotlines exist. I hope everyone can access these resources if they need it ‘cause you all matter 🖤 Reblogging for myself & everyone out there who is struggling. I know it’s hard but please don’t give up!! 🌈
Whaaaaaaaaaaat??? XD Noooo Eno (can i call you that?)! Well! Is a complicated story, but i already got thumbs up to tell the truth so here it goes!
Is gelatinadepina a sideblog to gellaby? Yes
Are Gellaby and Gelatinadepina run by the same person? NO.
Gelatina is run by a person i know in fact, they dont even have a tumblr of their own and happen to have my password (is not the first person to have it, ask my friends Yamie and Abecedario who had to save my sorry ass by posting some draws for me because i have a shitty phone and tumblr app hates me, said draws being the last year mothers day and an ivlin draw, and others more, for real) Gelatinadepina is like a shared blog except i dont use it.
Tbh im a person who is more of frontal attacks, if you follow me you probably saw some dramas happening in Gellaby, even the Hydra ones, i don’t have the need for a side blog for such purposes when mine is enough. If you pay attention you’ll probably notice Gelatina and me have…a different way of saying things and dealing with stuff and drama.
Aaaand lets add im a bussy person, i have classes to attend, sisters to care about, homework, i live in a country that is so bad economically that is being impossible to live in (every day is a battle) and a looot of personal stuff that i cant, i barely have time for myself, and lately i cant even draw (i have a stock of requests, birthday presents, oc stuff, and miscellaneous things piling up and im so sorry for that i will make them as soon i have time) and im not being as active before for that same reason, i dont have time for myself so when i come here i only want to have fun and be with my friends so they know im alive, not picking up arguments.
So no, we are not the same person. But you can try guessing again. ;). But if you want a hint: near, but not quite, if it was hot and cold , you would be almost hot
What im going to do? Nothing! let them fight and get their steam off.
“near, but not quite, if it was hot and cold , you would be almost hot”
I don’t want people who read my blog to think that in all my arguments im saying that fiction doesn’t matter. It does. Popular fiction and even smaller works have a huge effect on people. My argument isn’t that fiction means nothing. My argument is that the effect it has is less brainwashing and more thought provoking.
The reason i think people interpret what i say as “fiction doesn’t matter” is that on tumblr, because this site is mostly young people who are just beginning to learn about themselves and being introduced to a lot of complicated and ambiguous things for the first time, a lot of people just kind of accept what’s presented to them. Its a lot of peoples first experience with thinking about morality so the idea of having someone telling you what’s right so you have a stronger jumping off point is attractive.
I also think it has a lot to do with the fact that a lot of the big fandoms on tumblr are for children’s shows. And this isn’t me looking down on kids tv, it can be really good and interesting and start some really cool conversations. And its fun. Its just that kids tv tends to have a strong, blunt, and uncomplicated moral message without a lot of nuance becuse, well, its for kids. So when that’s the majority of what you consume, seeing things presented more ambiguously without an announced “correct” view point, it can feel like its advocating for something you think is wrong.
Children’s media tells you in no uncertain terms who the bad guy is and what’s the right thing to do. So if a story doesn’t announce to the reader whether or not something or someone is wrong or bad it comparatively feels like endorsement of the bad thing because your frame of reference is more simplistic tv meant for kids. But it shouldn’t be telling you what’s wrong and what’s right. That takes away a big part of what makes the story interesting. It allows you to look at a very intricate and nuanced situation and figure out what you think is right. Kids media is very black and white, so when you see gray it looks like black.
So reading “gray” fiction can expose you to ideas or specific situations that you wouldn’t have thought of and lets you see how your own morals fit over it. And sometimes your morals don’t fit and that can make you rethink right and wrong. Which is a huge effect for fiction to have on a person. So when antis say “fiction affects reality” they think reading something that doesn’t match you morals will make you abandon them and accept the morality that fits the story, but the affect it more often has is taking a closer look at yourself and adjusting your morals based on new thoughts. Which is good.
I think a lot of children’s programming is getting away from that. Grey antagonists are becoming more popular, as are grey protagonists (Batman is a perpetual favorite). Critical thinking skills are developed with these things.
Yeah, it is becoming a bit more like that. But in the end there is usually a correct choice presented for the protagonist or a way for them to avoid the situation.