Sorry about the wait! I dont think this is too dark at all. Ive been pretty excited to write this actually! Sorry if it’s actually more fluff than actual angst =u=
Or maybe creating content for and supporting ships that are pedophilic normalizes said relationships. Causing minors to think these types of relationships are normal and healthy, putting them at risk of getting into a abusive relationship with a adult.
Do you actually have anything whatsoever to prove these statements? And don’t even bother copy-pasting the link you’ve been throwing around on another post, because that portion of the PROTECT Act was deemed unconstitutional on a federal level as of United States vs Handley, which is the ONLY CASE THAT WE KNOW OF that was based completely on drawn material of fictional characters, without any discovery of other types of material in the possession of the accused:
I’d like to note at this time that many of us are defending shippers because of the implications of limiting artistic freedom of expression. I do not watch any of the shows commonly brought up in these discussions. I have no ships to defend. I don’t write fanfiction. However, I understand that it is necessary to defend fictional material in order to protect other liberties, even if I don’t personally like or agree with the material. The way you people tend to act by instantly assuming anyone that criticizes you must be a “pedophile” is like insisting that all women that are pro-choice “just want to kill babies”. There’s more to it than that.
If you’re going to try to make the “obscenity” argument, “obscene” is subjective, not universal (after all, to certain parts of the world, women choosing to leave their hair uncovered is “obscene”, and eating a cheeseburger is considered sacrilegious) and anime and cartoon
fan art
made by primarily teenage girls would still have to be legally proven
“obscene” and lacking in
“literary, artistic” value in order to be deemed illegal (don’t forget
that
Vladimir Nabokov’s “Lolita” is considered a piece of classic literature,
despite being told from the point of view of a manipulative pedophile.
We are also one of a few countries to offer A Serbian Film uncut on DVD and Blu-ray). To the
furthest extent of my knowledge, that has never occurred on a federal
level in modern America, and likely never will. Tumblr is based in America. Your belief that these artworks are illegal is based on a superficial understanding of the 2003 PROTECT
act, without research of its finer points or its execution, nor of its dismantling.
You need to understand that you’re abusing terms like “normalize” in
regards to the most hated crimes of all time. Rape and child sexual
abuse are hated even more than murder, to the point where child abusers are often killed by other inmates in prison. There is nothing that could possibly “normalize” something so hated. Unlike you, I actually know how the criminal mind works, and what goes into creating an abuser. It’s not as simple as you want to believe.
When it comes to grooming, an abuser can groom a victim without ever using anything sexual whatsoever.
If literally anything–including cartoons themselves–can become a tool
of control, it is asinine to believe that blindly attacking one form of
fan content that isn’t even seen by a large, worldwide audience is going
to do fuck all whatsoever to “solve” the problem. I hate to tell
you this, but you literally CAN’T “solve” or “stop” pedophilia, rape,
abuse, etc. completely, because you cannot prevent damaged people from
being created. It can continue to decline (which it has), but there
will always be shitty people that developmentally harm their children
(and, by the way…
the greatest threat to children
statistically? It’stheirownmothers).
By the way, I myself am also one of those CSA victims that you think you speak for. Being offended does not mean you’re automatically in the right, as–again–the feeling is not universal. It is because neither of us speak for all victims that we cannot seek to limit anyone’s freedom of expression, which would be scapegoating
at best (i.e., a false proposed “solution” to a problem that negates
its actual causes, and remains in denial that the idea of concrete
solutions just aren’t realistic. In other words, your crusade
against fan-created content is no more a solution to real-life rape or
pedophilia than wrongfully blaming minorities was for Nixon and Reagan’s “War on
Drugs”). It’s just a way for a privileged group of people to feel better about themselves, and believe they’ve accomplished something when they actually haven’t done jack shit. It’s a way for people to either avoid accepting any personal responsibility they may have, or avoid facing the truth that they don’t have the ability to combat the issue. If we operated by your logic, then it would be ethical to
limit the liberties of LGBT citizens, because allowing those rights is
“offensive” to religious extremists by not adhering to the values of
their religion. As a member of the LGBT community, I’d rather we didn’t adopt the same line of thinking as that used to justify bigotry.
Anyway, unpopular opinion, but I still immensely dislike the jokes about “The Straights” because:
1. Being an asshole to people for no real reason is actually really shitty, despite what the wannabe high school bullies on this hellsite tell you
2. The jokes always end up having splash damage on people that aren’t actually straight but are seen as “straight enough” by the hellish LGBT+ “community” on this hellsite
3) Actually mocking people for their sexual orientation – a double standart for a community trying to fight predjudices and discrimination against sexual orientation. No, people with heterosexual orientation are no targeted like LGBTQA-members in real life but being mean to someone online because of their sexuality is a shitty move, and only makes you behaving like an asshole.
4. Straight trans people exist and are lgbtq+
5. And straight cis-passing trans people shouldn’t have to come out and potentially trigger themselves just to not be victims of a stupid joke,
6. It usually results in simply a “power game” to establish superiority over cishet allies, actually willing to help and support the community,
7. It’s politically irresponsible: jokes like that make it easier for conservative politicians who want to paint the community as arrogant, antagonistic harpies.
You’re not going to be able to grow and create healthy relationships if you cannot reflect on your own behaviours and accept the roles you have played in certain situations. You will continue to hurt people and wonder why everyone keeps leaving.